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So you were in a relationship with a guy for maybe a week or maybe even a year and then you discovered something that really upset you or got on your nerves. It could have been something big or it could have been something very, very tiny. Either way, you gave up on him and felt like you couldn’t take it anymore.
What did you do then? You broke up with him because you felt that ending the relationship was the best thing to do. Without even trying to solve or even talk to your ex boyfriend about the underlying issues that were worrying you, you just broke up with your boyfriend!
You probably didn’t even see it coming. So it is over. He had no idea the real reason you dumped him and now he doesn’t even want to bother with you. But now you realize that things were not as bad as you thought, you made a terrible mistake and you want to get them back.
Could this have been prevented? It probably is, but you couldn’t take it anymore. Maybe you come from different backgrounds and everything he does seems trivial to you. It could have been the way he ate his food with his fingers, or constantly leaving the toilet up.
Maybe you didn’t like the way he left his hair in the sink after shaving, or the way he constantly leaves his dirty clothes that only you can see on the floor, even though he constantly keeps walking on it. Maybe he’s not spending enough time with you or maybe he’s constantly at work trying to support you and his family.
Whatever the case may have been, he may never have noticed the clues you keep throwing at him and despite his ways, you realize that deep down he’s a great person. But now you want to get it back and the only thing is, it doesn’t want to have anything to do with you and everything you’ve tried so far has only made it more distant. He doesn’t even answer the phone anymore.
I’m sure you’ve tried many things to get your ex boyfriend back, but what you should be doing is the opposite. The best thing you can do right now is to leave your ex-boyfriend alone if you want to get him back. That’s right … cut off all communication from your ex boyfriend. The problem is, your ex-boyfriend feels embarrassed, humiliated, and perhaps downright enraged that you broke up with him over something so insignificant in his eyes.
Sometimes kids don’t always see things for what they really are. But regardless of the situation or circumstances, we guys also have feelings and when someone you love tells you that they have a problem with you or constantly scolds them for things no matter how big or small it hurts, especially when a guy knows he’s wrong. . Regardless of whether you admit it or not.
If this is the case and you have been calling your ex boyfriend constantly and he has been ignoring your phone calls, it is a clear indication that he needs his time to think about the relationship. Give him time to clear his mind and realize his own faults and what he could have done and could not have done alone. It is the only way you will achieve it. Arguing about what you should and shouldn’t have will never get you back. Trust me, it only makes things worse.
Regardless of whether you understand your own flaws, it is important that you give your ex boyfriend his space. Regardless of whether you think he needs it or not, you should. Failure to do so will only make the situation worse and appear clingy, desperate, obsessed, and needy. Also, by pushing it away, no one wants to be with a controlling or obsessed person. You do!
If you want to get it back, you must give it its space. Don’t text her asking for a second chance or love you messages. It doesn’t matter if you send them via email, text messages, MySpace, IM, or even show up at home. Just give him time to think about the relationship and give him time to miss you and the qualities that made him fall in love with you in the first place.
This will also give them time to figure out why you broke up with him, and if he really cares about you, he will make the necessary changes to fix things. If you don’t give him his space, he will never have time to think about the relationship and you will only push them further and further away. Your ex-boyfriend wants the person they fell in love with first, not the person you’ve become. Let me say it again, your ex-boyfriend wants the person they fell in love with first and not the person you’ve become.
A lot of girls will break up with their boyfriend just to see if they try to get him back, it’s like a power trip. If this is what he did, then he is treading dangerous waters. You see that when you do this you are playing with the emotions of a man, and you cannot play with the emotions. If this is what you did, you need to find out why you really want to get back with your ex. Do you really care about him because a person who truly loves his boyfriend wouldn’t put them in such pain and agony to put his love to the test?
In many cases, people who try to do things just to see how strong the relationship is have self-esteem issues. These issues need to be resolved before even attempting to recover it. If it’s you and you feel like you’re not good enough for your boyfriend, then you’ll have to work on your self-esteem issues if you want to get him back.
Mind games only complicate things and will ultimately drive your ex further and further apart. So while you and your ex boyfriend are separated, it is a good time to make the necessary changes and address any problems that you can solve within yourself.
Despite the many problems your boyfriend may have, sometimes you may need to look at yourself first. No boyfriend wants to be with someone who feels demanding and demanding a lot of maintenance. If you get your ex back, then make sure you really want him so you don’t put the person you love in such pain and agony.