Tips for sexual foreplay: 2 things women want you to know

Sexual foreplay is an integral process of a pleasurable lovemaking experience. Unfortunately, many men don’t know how to do it right! Men don’t usually pay much attention to foreplay because for them sex is intercourse. For women, intercourse is just one part of sex. As a result, women are not sexually satisfied.

Sexual Foreplay Tip #1: Slow Down

If any woman could give you one piece of advice about sexual foreplay, it would be to slow down. Let me explain…

In order to become a better lover for her, you need to learn the difference between men and women. What works for you may not work for her, so you can’t please her the way you want to be pleased! You see, men are always ready for sex. When a man is ready for sex, he will shift the focus to his partner’s genitalia. As a result, men often go straight for the genitals during foreplay. They touched the genitals and then had sex.

However, studies show that fewer women need at least 15 minutes to be sexually stimulated. Also, around 67% of women over the age of 35 will not reach orgasm during intercourse. Therefore, women prefer slow and intense foreplay. When she gets her way to rush everything, she can feel unsatisfied and sexually deprived.

Bottom line, you should always keep foreplay for a minimum of 20 minutes (unless you and she are on a quickie).

Tip #2 for sexual foreplay: Take care of yourself

No matter how long your relationship with her lasts, you should always keep fit and still look attractive to her. Of course, I’m not suggesting that you put her physical appearance high on your list. No, you don’t need to be like Brad Pitt. At the very least, it should look clean, well-cared for, and well-groomed. If you want to be the best lover to him and give him the best foreplay, here is a checklist for you:

1. Check your lips: are they dry or chapped? You should use a lip balm daily to moisturize your lips and make them look kissable.
2. Check your teeth – Yellow or dirty teeth are a big turn off during foreplay. Whether you think your teeth are fine or not, you should have them cleaned by a professional dentist at least once a year.
3. Check your breath: watch your breath whether you’re going to have sex or not.